0-month-old Dalmation Bella has been with them for two weeks now

How do you help a young rescue dog settle into a new home without relying on ‘No’ and ‘Down’?

10-month-old Dalmatian Bella has been with them in her new home for two weeks now, and she is still learning what is wanted of her – or as is so often the case – what is not wanted of her.

Young Dalmatian and her new home.

There are problems with trying to teach a dog NOT to do something and it’s simply not efficient. One effect of using the negative approach is that the attention she is given by being pushed off and told ‘Down’ and ‘No’ can reinforce the very behaviour that they don’t want.

Another problem is that, even if the ‘Uh-uh’ interrupts something like scratching at the door or poking her nose in the wires behind the TV, it isn’t actually teaching her anything useful like what she may do.

Any negative should be replaced with, or followed by, a positive.

“Don’t do that – do this instead”.

In silence I communicated to Bella, ‘Don’t jump up on me’ (because I shall show you with my body language that there is absolutely no mileage in that for you), ‘but sit or stand beside me instead’ (because I shall now give you attention you want).

The couple have got themselves a real jewel with Bella. She apparently came from a family with teenagers so she is quite robust, but probably rules and boundaries were  a bit lax. I gave her new owners general advice on reward-based training, correcting unwanted behaviour, walking nicely and on being well mannered.

If they continue to work with Bella through her adolescence she should become a wonderful companion.

NB: For the sake of the story and for confidentiality also, this isn’t a complete report. If you listen to ‘other people’ or find instructions on the internet or TV that are not tailored to your own dog, you can do more harm than good. Stories are up to date at time of writing, each one with permission.  
Theo Stewart – dog behaviourist helping dog owners helping their dogs through understanding. 
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