Rapturous greetings
Our puppy is given rapturous welcomes and greeting by all who come to the house. She is picked up and encouraged to jump at them rather than (along with those guests!) taught some restraint. Isn’t it likely she may think this is the way to greet all people she meets?
Looking at 19 week old Cavapoo Molly, you can see that she is absolutely irresistible.
Another concern of the couple is that she may be getting a little fearful of larger dogs. She tries greeting them in the same exuberant way by jumping all over them. Recently has encountered a dog that was not so friendly.
Gentle puppy
She really is the sweetest, friendliest little dog and very gentle for a puppy.
I do sometimes wonder whether extreme excitement upon greeting people and dogs doesn’t actually mask a touch of anxiety. If a human were to greet someone at the door in this rather frantic and over-enthusiastic manner, would it be pure happiness? May it not betray some unease?
I picked her up briefly myself and did sense she wasn’t really enjoying it. Immediately I put her down she started scratching herself which I suspect she uses as a displacement activity when things are getting just a little bit too much for her.
I suggest that nobody picks Molly up unless it’s really necessary.
I also suggest she learns that hellos at home don’t happen until she has calmed down a bit. This is so hard to explain to callers who instantly fall in love with the delightful puppy.
Out on walks
Out on walks her ‘parents’ now need to take charge of who she interacts with, just as they would a toddler. They can restrain her gently, only allowing greeting those people and dogs they know feel the same way about her.
It would be a great shame if, at this sensitive time in her development, she were to meet an adult dog that showed aggression towards her. Her encounters should all be positive as far as is possible. If there is any doubt, they should put more distance between her and the possible ‘threat’.
Two important rules are: don’t give puppies too much freedom to soon. Start with restricting them in small areas at home (which also aids toilet training) and keep them nearby on a long lead when out. Gradually, as one would a child, expand the available space as they learn to handle it, without giving complete freedom for several months at least.
The second rule is to work constantly on recall using tiny bits of something tasty as a reward or play, both at home and out, thousands of times over the days, weeks and months, until when the dog is called it is a conditioned response to come.
Coming when called is the key to managing much unwanted behaviour. If the puppy is doing something like chewing a chair or chewing stones as Molly does, all one needs to do is to call her and she will come running over (dropping the stone). Then she can be rewarded for coming away and given an acceptable alternative.
A bomb-proof recall will keep her safe on walks. It should override the instinct to chase or desire to play if caught in time – before she’s in another zone altogether when she may become so focussed that nothing will get through.
About 6 weeks later: ‘We are still enjoying Molly I can’t believe she is now 6 months old, she is getting much better at entertaining herself and as I write is quietly sitting with me amusing herself. She seems very happy so we must be doing ok!
