A couple of days ago, to the total horror of the young couple who own her, their dog bit someone.
How her humans behave in response
Their reaction was very natural but to the more enlightened completely inappropriate. It can only encourage further aggression. Things now are definitely heading in the wrong direction unless the way her humans behave with her is completely reversed.
Little Beagle Molly is fifteen months old. Here she is in her favourite look-out place for barking at passing people and dogs. She is briefly taking a break after going through all her attention-seeking repertoire and relaxing happily after some clicker work.
I need to say before I go any further what great and dedicated owners little Molly has. They recognise they’ve not got the knowledge and things are going wrong, and they are making big sacrifices to put this right. This is the mark of good dog parents.
Mixed messages
They love Molly to bits, but simply don’t know how to ‘bring up’ a dog. She is totally confused. She can receive cuddles, shouting at her, rough and tumble play, being scolded, kissing, more cuddling and punishment all from the same person.
Like so many people I go to, they say ‘everyone tells us different things’ and seldom are any of these things helpful as they are mostly dominance based and involved punishment. They are at their wits’ end.
In the evenings all Molly does is to run rings around them in order to get attention, and apart from over-boisterous hands-on play that encourages the mouthing and nipping, it is No, No and No. She nicks the remote or she will steal the man’s shirt The way they retrieve the items invites defiance.
Positive, force-free methods
Wouldn’t it be great if people could attend positive ‘dog-parenting’ classes before they picked up a puppy or new dog?
They would then start off by using positive methods and reading the right books. They would know how to give their dogs the right amount of stimulation and exercise (not too much and not too little). I would bet dogs treated like this from the start would never bite and their carers would be a lot happier.
Molly is becoming increasingly scared of people and it’s no wonder. She will be associating them with her humans’ anxiety and anger rather than with good stuff. She barks fearfully both at people she doesn’t know coming to the house and people she sees out on walks. The barking at the window will only be making this worse.
Basically she is punished for being scared. People don’t realise what they are doing. She bit when they were out and a woman came up behind them unexpectedly and put her hand down to Molly. It was dark. Fortunately the skin wasn’t broken. The reaction of all the people involved was very unfortunate. One even said she should be put to sleep. Unbelievable.
The couple were absolutely devastated when she bit the woman.
Things now will turn a corner, I know. These people are totally committed to changing things around, and after we looked at things from Molly’s perspective it was a like a light came on.
I showed the young man how to use a clicker, starting with a simple exercise which Molly picked up almost immediately. During the evening he was constantly clicking her for doing good things. For instance, instead of yelling at her for putting her feet up on the table, he waited until the moment her feet touched the floor and clicked and rewarded that – teaching her what he did want instead of scolding. Best of all, he really enjoyed it.
She was using her brain to seek ways of being ‘good’!
This is going to be very hard work because several areas of the dog’s life need an overhaul, but I am sure they will get there and I shall continue to help them in every way I can for as long as they need me. From now on it’s going to be Yes Yes Yes.
