Jack Russell Bella constantly nibbles, sucks and chews herself – or scratches.
She has many seasonal allergies and allergies to food, but the nibbling and sucking was something else. The intensity and manner in which she chews herself looked to me like she was deliberately shutting out the world.
How could this be when she is loved so much?
Chews herself due to stress
I could see that she was enormously stressed. In fact, the lady and her daughter were also anxious and fearful – mostly about Bella, something she would be picking up on.
The dog is the centre of their universe. She is treated very excitedly whether it is physical play, cuddles or when one of them arrives home. I have found that constant focus on a dog can be a burden for it – as it would for us.
Caring owners however should never beat themselves up when they are doing things with the very best of intentions.
I experimented and found she liked being touched very gently but not vigorously at all. A little tickle behind her ears or a tickle on her chest. A hand stretched out over her made he cower slightly. It is enlightening for people to read a bit more of their dog’s body language.
Jumpy
Little Bella is extremely jumpy. Any small sound of a cooking utensil sends her running. She is also very scared on walks – a car door slamming causes her to freeze or try to run for home.
It didn’t help that a while ago when they were out, neighbours reported a break-in and three police officers smashed through the front door with poor little Bella the other side. Also, last year a large dog got into their garden and in protecting little Bella the lady was very badly bitten and is now terrified.
Watching out for dogs makes walks a nightmare for her as well. There have been some hard times.
We had a lovely evening. We gave Bella little attention – something they never would normally have considered. Instead of focussing on the scratching, sucking while she chews herself trying to distract or stop her, the daughter quietly gave her a tiny bit of food each time she stopped.
They said it was the calmest the house had been for years.
I have just received an email to say that Bella slept better than ever last night and didn’t wake until 9.30.
It is my bet that as she relaxes her allergies will improve and she will also stop being a dog that chews herself.
Just a couple of weeks later I have received this message: We are so happy with our beautifully behaved, quiet little dog. The house is so quiet and calm and we really cannot believe the difference already. She is doing so well and the only time she slips up is when I am not so on the ball (she has learnt quicker than me), but she is much younger !! it is a real learning curve for us too.
And a week after that, ‘Well, I have to say that Bella is a transformed dog, I barely recognise her, she is so different. Mum has done so well and is really firm about the new changes, and regime. I am comforted in the fact that she is so calm when I don’t make a big thing of greeting her. It was so hard at first, I had to go into another room as I had tears in my eyes! Oh dear. Thank you so much again for all your solid advice, it makes so much sense and we could not have done it without you.
