Ant and Dec
Here we have Ant and Dec – adorable eighteen-month-old Chihuahua brothers.
Different personalities
They have had exactly the same upbringing but their personalities are very different. Ant on the left is quite a confident little dog while Dec is restless, on constant alert, wary of being approached, barks at people he doesn’t know well or dislikes – and has snapped and bitten.
Over-indulged
Both little dogs are overweight despite the couple who own them sticking rigidly to the diet regime. This is because they need the help of another couple to look after them so they are not left alone too long. Unfortunately these people, who absolutely adore the dogs, can’t be persuaded not to over-indulge them.
The alternative would be leaving the dogs all alone for hours.
Between a rock and a hard place
Little Dec may bite if removed by the gentleman owner from his lap when asleep and he has bitten a child. He is actually fairly tolerant of children, but when he’s had enough his signals simply are ignored. We need to be looking out for ‘look-aways’, lip-licking and yawning which all show he’s becoming increasingly uneasy. Growling will follow. Then he may be scolded for giving what is really quite a reasonable warning.
By now he is between a rock and a hard place; he has no options left – he snaps.
The poor dog can’t talk ‘human’ and the humans aren’t understanding ‘dog’.
Dec is scared of vehicles and bicycles; air-brakes send his tail between his legs and he would run if he could. He hates the vacuum and the strimmer – and fireworks. Visitors may pick them up which makes Ant pee.
He bit a man on the mouth
The final straw came the other day when the friend bent over Dec as he slept on the sofa (in order to kiss him I believe) He bit the man’s lip badly.
These little dogs are carried about too much (as chihuahuas often are); they are subjected to big hands reaching out on top of them to touch them and large human faces getting uncomfortably close.
Over-feeding, pandering to fussy eating, giving too many un-earned treats, carrying little dogs about, forcing kisses on them and getting them too excited when greeting to the extent that a dog pees. These things are done in the name of love, but aren’t kind really.
The owners themselves are more restrained, but they need to be much firmer with the other couple who share the care of their dogs.
It is always best if I can have my first meeting with everyone willing to be involved in changing their own behaviour in order to change the dogs’ behaviour. The couple are very keen to understand Ant and Dec’s needs, but fear the other people may be unwilling to listen to my advice or change their over-indulgent ways. Consistency from everyone is so important.
Just see in the photo how eager and attentive they can be if motivated!
It is just after Christmas and I received this email: Hope you had a good Christmas! Just wanted to let you know of some fantastic success we have had with Dec. It’s funny that we only saw small changes until we visited Johnny’s parents over the last couple of days…
Normally Dec has been petrified of Johnny’s brother…..When we visited we had been using the pen lots when things got too busy and hectic to keep them calm and calmly brought Dec into the room Johnny’s brother was in- seriously was like a miracle moment- no barking, no signs of him being anxious he even went onto his lap and let him stroke him!!!! I think knowing the signs of when they are anxious has really helped us to keep him calm- we can’t always remove him from a situation but just knowing what to look out for really helps!
Normally visiting Johnny’s family with the dogs is something I find really stressful but they have been 100% better behaved which just makes everything so much more enjoyable!
